I got back Sunday night from a week in Barcelona. My husband had a work event there, and so I tagged along, with the goal of using some of this time to be a tourist, and some for a writing retreat of sorts (working my way through my book manuscript). This is by far the longest the two of us have been away together (without kids) since the little guy was born 5 years ago. But our nanny and two other of our long time caregivers were able to stay with the kids in shifts and keep things running, so we took advantage of the opportunity.
The weekend before we left did not leave a ton of space for packing or worrying about details — this was the weekend with two dress rehearsals and two concerts. I’m happy to report that both went well. But it was a bit of a whirlwind. I came home from concert #2 at 5:30 p.m. Sunday March 16th, our sitter came at 6 p.m., and Michael and I were out the door a few minutes after 6.
I actually slept reasonably on the flight, maybe 3.5 hours of the 7. Spain welcomed us with a 1.25 hour custom line but I eventually made it to my hotel (Hotel Nobu near Sants) where I could take a brief nap (feeling a little guilty that my husband headed into 7 hours of meetings but…)
That afternoon I went on a tour of the Alta Alella winery. The sun was shining and I could see the Mediterranean. We had a slightly different sort of wine tasting/pairing, where a chef had us try various wildflowers that grew in the area alongside the Cavas and other wines from the winery. This was certainly memorable (fennel, plus a flower that tasted like wasabi…) but let me just say that wildflowers don’t really absorb much, especially if you are jet lagged, but I only took a few sips of each of the 5 (!) glasses of wine they poured, so I survived, made it back to the hotel, and took another brief nap before meeting my husband for one of his work dinners.
The next day I mostly worked, except for a brief foray to buy lunch from a nearby grocery store (Iberian ham, an orange, and an excellent loaf of fresh bread that cost like 60 cents — I love Europe that way). Then that afternoon my husband and I got on a tour to see the Sagrada Familia, the famous Gaudi designed, half-finished cathedral. The outside was a little surreal, like all the pictures, and I liked the varied sculptures (you rarely see a stone turtle as a cathedral decoration) but it was the inside that was really special. When I walked inside, I just gasped. I have never seen stained glass windows like that before. They were so vibrant and bright, and colorful, somewhat like sunlight filtering through trees in a forest. I took pictures and videos, but it just doesn’t capture the effect, and this was on a cloudy day! I can’t even imagine if the sun was shining.
(Last year’s trip to Spain was very rainy too! Barcelona is supposed to have excellent weather next week — oh well…)
Wednesday was another work day for me, followed by yet another long dinner. I somehow wound up at a club after this — not what I would have chosen but I guess it was memorable. Full on DJ, lights, dancing, lots of 20-year-olds in tight clothing and me feeling very old — especially the case when I went to bed at 2 a.m. Yikes.
The next day I went to the Joan Miró foundation and saw all that artist’s work. I have seen a lot of individual works (or 2-3) in other collections but this was my first time seeing a lot of them. My favorite was a giant tapestry that he created with a textile artist. Some of his triptychs were very conceptual (like a single black line across a white canvas) but arranged in a room designed for them they do have a visual effect.
We had to move hotels at this point (to the Grand Hyatt near the University of Barcelona), so I spent some time getting to know the new neighborhood. At night a few of us went to dinner at Cocina Hermanos Torres, which is a 3 Michelin star restaurant. The food was of course amazing, with many many courses. I lost track of all of them, and the net result was not going to bed until 1 a.m. again — maybe the jet lag won’t be so bad if I was going to bed at the US equivalent of 8 or 9 p.m.!
Friday was a very low key day. My husband was in meetings much of the time. I did a very long workout, relaxed and read for a while, and walked around seeing the sights. Then he and I went to dinner with just the two of us and got to sit outside — a casual little cafe type place. This was our shortest dinner by far of the week! We had paella, olives, tomatoes, beer.
Saturday, after another long workout, I went to the Picasso Museum. I particularly enjoyed his early works (he did an amazing self-portrait, and a portrait of his father, when he was 15). I also loved his series capturing the pigeons on his windowsill in Cannes. These canvases were done during a short break from his studies of Las Meninas that he was copying (in a very Picasso way) from the Velazquez painting. We had seen that painting in Madrid last year so I enjoyed seeing these interpretations, but the pigeons just made me happy.
Miraculously, the sun finally came out, and the Picasso Museum is right in the middle of the old city part of Barcelona, so I spent some time just wandering around the very narrow alleys and stone streets, not entirely getting lost but coming close.
We flew back Sunday — the flight was long, but I used it to work and then PHL greeted me with an hour-long customs line. My husband has Global Entry so he went through and just worked on the other side while he waited for me. I’m debating if it’s worth getting Global Entry. I don’t travel internationally that often, and sometimes the line is long but sometimes it’s non-existent (and Global Entry involves some effort), and my kids can’t go through with us anyway without their own Global Entry so…hard to know.
I will do a shout out to my travel shoes. I bought a pair of Skechers loafers in order to have some cool weather shoes that were walkable but weren’t sneakers. I hadn’t really worn them more than a day or two before the trip, so this was something of a risk, but they were comfortable, and held up to the miles of walking that tend to happen on a European city vacation. I also managed to get everything for a week in my carry-on, and this included bringing a formal dress plus heels for one of the dinners, so I was pretty proud of my packing.
I am also happy to report that I read through my entire book manuscript — twice — which was my goal for this time I had away from the kids and my usual responsibilities. I did some editing, and while it does need a bit more work, it is coming together. Now back to a busy week — but hopefully not too many bedtime battles as I am tired. The kids made very cute signs for us welcoming us home!
I also debated TSA precheck vs. Global entry and decided to opt for Global entry. The price difference is small and I could do the interview at an office in downtown Manhattan instead of at JFK. It’s true that the kids can’t ride along on global entry like they can with TSA precheck. But now my 17 yo is seriously looking at universities outside of the country it may really come in handy. Plus he turns 18 this summer and will need his own TSA precheck or global entry so, certainly if living outside the country looks likely at that point the increased cost of global entry will make sense.
@Gillian – yep, if I’d thought this through 10 years ago when I got TSA pre-check I would have done Global Entry simultaneously (if that was an option then???) but now I just have pre-check and it seems to renew automatically, so getting Global Entry would definitely involve extra steps + a trip to the airport.
Our family took a trip to Barcelona last year and I was amazed by the inside of Sagrada Familia. It is one of the most beautiful things (architecturally) I have ever seen. And it’s so…minimalist compared to the outside, so the juxtaposition is a bit jarring. We were there on a sunny day and I can confirm it was AMAZING. It really did feel like being inside an enchanted forest.
@Elisabeth – it was amazing. Maybe someday I’ll be back and the sun will be shining!
Didn’t mean to sound weird, Ms. Laura Vanderkam, but from today’s blog post, I can see an upside to you being self-employed.
@Yukun – definitely – I was able to work in Barcelona and see the sights.
Sounds fabulous Laura! I’ve very recently retired (weeks ago!) and while I was not self-employed, I worked remotely for the past ten years and had some tremendous flexibility in scheduling. I’m intrigued especially by the wildflower/wine pairings and love the Picasso you shared. Oh, and always on the hunt for comfortable sneaker-type shoes that don’t scream sneaker, so I’ll check those out as well.
@Holly – the Picasso Museum really was something – he was prolific. And I probably won’t ever have wildflowers and wine paired together again, so it was memorable for sure 🙂
Fun! Glad you were able to get away together. It sounds like a great trip.
@Amanda – yes! Even though he had a lot of work events it was still fun to spend some time together.
Re: global entry – kid fees are now waived if the parent has it (or is applying at the same time). So, while you still have to do the forms and interview, it’s no-cost. My kids were kinda annoyed with the errand to get the “interview” done, and then were amazed as we basically walked through customs without stopping after our latest trip last month!
(Does PHL use the Mobile Passport app? We’ve also used that with great success at JFK/EWR. Totally free and easy!)
@Alissa- yep, PHL has mobile passport, but the line for that was atrocious on Sunday too. I guess it was just a bad day!
I have global entry. It’s nice that it lasts for 5 years and includes TSA precheck. Phil does not have it so I tend to go through customs with him. Today it took 2 minutes!! It is a pain to set up initially but it’s nice to have it. I also have clear which is worth every penny!! But I need as little friction as possible when traveling as often as I do!
@Lisa’s Yarns – I’m curious what benefit you see in Clear? The TSA pre-check line is almost always quite short at PHL but maybe I am missing something?
We were Barcelona in august and the stained glass and tower visit at Sagrada familia was the highlight.
Get the global entry for everyone….. so worth it after a long flight home imo. Now I’m from overseas so we/l do international more often than many. However, I’m grateful every time. Even after a long day in dehydrating claustrophobic environments!
@Jennie – Sagrada Familia was definitely a highlight for me – something I will remember for a while.
Hi – PHL accepts the mobile passsport control app. You enter in all your customs info and then you get fast tracked through the same line as global entry. I used this in December when returning from London. There we as a huge customs line so i downloaded MPC and entered in all the info and was through in 15 mins. Its a government app and not all airports use it but its a good alternative to global entry if you don’t offer travel internationally
@Joelle – sadly the mobile app line was about as long as the regular line this time around – they literally had people down the hall being called up to the mobile passport line because it was snaking around so far. But I can see how it could sometimes be faster.