If you are mostly managing your household schedule and logistics, then you probably keep track of a lot. It can feel overwhelming, but there are ways to make it all more manageable.
In today’s episode of Best of Both Worlds, Sarah and I share 7 strategies for lightening the “mental load,” defined as the cognitive and emotional effort it takes to manage life. From writing things down to batching, automation, embracing vertical ownership, encouraging kid independence, and spending out, we’ve got lots of ideas. And of course our favorite: care less. It’s not always possible, but when it is, it can definitely help!
In the Q&A we address a listener question about the best jobs that are high paying and also flexible. It’s not a question with a straightforward answer. Lots of jobs can be made more flexible once you’ve built up seniority and experience. Even “flexible” jobs usually aren’t 100 percent flexible once time has been spoken for. But we give some ideas for thinking through this question.
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I am mostly managing my household schedule and logistics and keep track of a lot. But, I usually do not feel that it is overwhelming. Nevertheless, I can give this episode a listen.
I’ve now listened this episode. But, I think that my response is going to exceed 500 words. I’ll write a little bit at a time then. First, I found that once we define Mental load as “The cognitive and emotional effort that it takes to manage life”, it will ensure us being on the same page.